By LUPER 
The phrase “Hating is giving people you detest real estate in your mind” suggests that holding onto hatred or resentment toward someone essentially allows them to occupy your thoughts, energy, and focus. In other words, when you hate someone, you’re essentially letting them control your mental space, even though you may not want them to.
Your mind is like real estate—valuable and finite. When you direct negative emotions like hate toward someone, you’re choosing to allocate mental space to them. This space could otherwise be used for more positive or productive thoughts, goals, and relationships.
Hate can be consuming, and often, the person you hate may not even be aware of it. They may be living their life while you’re mentally burdened by thoughts of them. This leads to wasted energy and mental distress, all because you’re holding on to negative feelings.
Letting go of hate is a way to reclaim that mental real estate and free yourself from the grip of negativity, allowing you to focus on things that are more constructive or fulfilling.
